[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/zachazejte-se-svym-ditetem-jedinecne-kazde-dite-je-jine\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/zachazejte-se-svym-ditetem-jedinecne-kazde-dite-je-jine\/","headline":"Zach\u00e1zejte se sv\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem jedine\u010dn\u011b… Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jin\u00e9","name":"Zach\u00e1zejte se sv\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem jedine\u010dn\u011b… Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jin\u00e9","description":"Byl jednou jeden kr\u00e1sn\u00fd p\u00e1v, kter\u00fd se m\u011bl moc r\u00e1d, a\u017e jednoho dne zaslechl pobl\u00ed\u017e zp\u00edvat slav\u00edka. Zklaman\u00fd p\u00e1v.","datePublished":"2022-07-09","dateModified":"2023-05-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/5522eb0fc8481dea5f6519f6a0b15ee2c46358d48429b281fd7c49cbb5a929f9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/5522eb0fc8481dea5f6519f6a0b15ee2c46358d48429b281fd7c49cbb5a929f9?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ells.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/mother-316213_960_720.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/mother-316213_960_720.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/zachazejte-se-svym-ditetem-jedinecne-kazde-dite-je-jine\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":576,"articleBody":"Byl jednou jeden kr\u00e1sn\u00fd p\u00e1v, kter\u00fd se m\u011bl moc r\u00e1d, a\u017e jednoho dne zaslechl pobl\u00ed\u017e zp\u00edvat slav\u00edka. Zklaman\u00fd p\u00e1v sd\u00edlel sv\u016fj z\u00e1rmutek s v\u016fdcem bo\u017e\u00edch, Juno, kter\u00e9mu vysv\u011btlil, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u017eivot je sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fd. D\u00e1le dodal: „Jsou a jsou vyrobeny ur\u010dit\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, kter\u00fd slou\u017e\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmu \u00fa\u010delu. Slav\u00edk je po\u017eehn\u00e1n kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm hlasem a vy jste po\u017eehn\u00e1ni kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm pe\u0159\u00edm. \u017divot je o p\u0159ijet\u00ed a maxim\u00e1ln\u00edm vyu\u017eit\u00ed toho, co m\u00e1me.“ Z tohoto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu se v\u0161ichni m\u016f\u017eeme nau\u010dit, \u017ee my jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed bychom m\u011bli v\u017edy po\u010d\u00edtat s po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00edm sv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte, proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je v n\u011bjak\u00e9m zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00edm sm\u011bru jedine\u010dn\u00e9.Jak \u010dasto \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me na\u0161im d\u011btem: „Pod\u00edvejte se na sv\u00e9ho nejlep\u0161\u00edho p\u0159\u00edtele, je to nejlep\u0161\u00ed ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b. Pro\u010d nem\u016f\u017eete m\u00edt vynikaj\u00edc\u00ed zn\u00e1mky jako ona\/on?“ nebo „Vid\u00ed\u0161, tv\u016fj bratr\/sestra op\u011bt vyhr\u00e1li trofej pro nejlep\u0161\u00edho hr\u00e1\u010de. Pro\u010d nem\u016f\u017ee\u0161 hr\u00e1t jako on\/ona?“ P\u0159irovn\u00e1n\u00ed je zlod\u011bj radosti, kter\u00fd slou\u017e\u00ed pouze k tomu, abyste vy a va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b byli frustrovan\u00ed a zklaman\u00ed. Neust\u00e1le porovn\u00e1v\u00e1me jejich zn\u00e1mky, v\u00fd\u0161ku, v\u00e1hu, talent, v\u00fdkon atd. s jejich vrstevn\u00edky a p\u0159\u00e1teli. V\u00edm, \u017ee jako rodi\u010d je srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed jist\u00e9, ale ide\u00e1ln\u00ed rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v tom, \u017ee d\u00e1v\u00e1te sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti dostatek p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k rozkv\u011btu, m\u00edsto abyste je omezovali na va\u0161e pravidla a p\u0159edpisy, pro kter\u00e9 je \u017eivotn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 vychutnat si jeho nenapodobitelnou osobnost a identifikovat jeho pot\u0159eby a nad\u0161en\u00ed. . M\u00edsto toho, abyste \u0159ekli: \u201ePro\u010d se nem\u016f\u017eete tvrd\u011b u\u010dit jako v\u00e1\u0161 bratr, abyste m\u011bli dobr\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky jako on\u201c, \u0159ekn\u011bte \u201eAbyste z\u00edskali dobr\u00e9\/lep\u0161\u00ed zn\u00e1mky, abyste se piln\u011b u\u010dili.\u201c Nestahujte je sv\u00fdmi nerealistick\u00fdmi o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edmi.P\u0159edstavte si kancel\u00e1\u0159, kde v\u0161ech pades\u00e1t obchodn\u00edch z\u00e1stupc\u016f dostane za \u00fakol p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst 200str\u00e1nkovou knihu. Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee v\u0161ichni budou m\u00edt stejnou rychlost, my\u0161len\u00ed a schopnost rozum\u011bt? Ne, \u017ee? Jak tedy m\u016f\u017eeme o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee d\u011bti ze stejn\u00e9 t\u0159\u00eddy nebo rodiny budou podobn\u00e9? Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s je jin\u00fd s charakteristick\u00fdmi kombinacemi na\u0161\u00ed zranitelnosti, siln\u00fdch str\u00e1nek a schopnost\u00ed a m\u00e1 r\u016fzn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed, emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed a intelektu\u00e1ln\u00ed pot\u0159eby. Neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 takov\u00e1 z\u00e1sada jako \u201ejeden styl se hod\u00ed v\u0161em\u201c, a proto je \u017eivotn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 porozum\u011bt pot\u0159eb\u00e1m, vlastnostem, osobnosti a schopnostem ka\u017ed\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte. Pro jejich vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00fd r\u016fst a v\u00fdvoj nepou\u017e\u00edvejte stejn\u00e9 m\u011b\u0159\u00edtko pro p\u0159\u00edstup ke ka\u017ed\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti. Srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte s ostatn\u00edmi m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt zra\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed a podn\u011bcovat mezi nimi \u017e\u00e1rlivost. Vychov\u00e1vejte je, aby byli sami sebou. Nechte je u\u010dit se sv\u00fdm vlastn\u00edm tempem a objevovat svou vlastn\u00ed cestu.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Zach\u00e1zejte se sv\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem jedine\u010dn\u011b… Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jin\u00e9","item":"https:\/\/www.ells.cz\/zachazejte-se-svym-ditetem-jedinecne-kazde-dite-je-jine\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]